During a recent visit to a seminary, a student raised his hand with a question as we discussed the relational focus of ethnic culture and ministry. He asked, “How do you get into a relationship?”
I suspect that many people of our generation are asking the same question. Somehow, as life has become overloaded, techno-laden, material-focused, and self-centered, we’ve become relationally challenged. We know about things and we know about knowledge, but we have no clue about people--and what it is to be one.
How do you get into a relationship?
1. Be present. Instead of always doing, be aware and available where you’re at.
2. Watch and listen. You’ll be surprised how many people need to be heard and need someone to value them.
3. Learn how you can bless others. Instead of being all about you, find out how you can bless the people you encounter.
4. Take time. A relationship means you’re committing to the long haul. Don’t give up on the people God places in your life. Time is grace--it is always on God’s side.
What if Christians and churches focused on lasting relationships instead of the latest fad programs? What if Christians and churches were patient in the Word, in prayer, and with people to see how God might effect Kingdom growth?
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